I have used a phrase most of my adult life to describe someone who is a part of a church or other organization that just belongs but does nothing for its furtherance, “magnificent uninvolvement”. This is a person that enjoys the community but without adding anything to that community. It has become an art form of slippery non-commitments. When someone asks for a decision about anything the pat answer is, “let me get back to you”. When pressed brand new excuses come up. Excuses like, “I am really too busy”, “I am compartmentalizing my life right now and can’t make a decision right now”, or “I am not ready to jump in with both feet.”
In my opinion, there are three reasons for magnificent uninvolvement.
The first is the person simply has a feeling of uselessness. They have seen the up-front ones, the ones that are seen and admired, as the ones who should be doing the community involvement. They are called but are not so-called that they see their place. They read in their Bible I Peter 4:10 and don’t see them seeing anything of worth to be used. For the forlorn few, remember ministry is not just preaching. A board member suggested that all the church should have a method of finding a ministry. The preacher interjected, “What would we do with 100 ushers?” These people need to be taught. Taught that there are special places, ministries, and gifts for all. And, in turn, given the possibility to use and exercise in their gifts. And yes, allowed to fail.
The second group is the hurting. They have tried to become more active. They have tried to use the gifts that God has given. They ventured out to be what God wanted them to be. But the response was judgment. Others in the church did not see perfection in the offering and were too quick to tell the fledgling minister he was not producing the expected. The church saw them as a threat to the status quo (which means all messed up in the first place). Those who have been hurt by the judgment of others needs to be simply loved. They need time to heal. They need time to be in a community that does not judge. Ministry is messy.
Lastly, there is a group that really irritates me. The simply lazy. In their lazy life, the only thing they do well is to criticize. They sit back and exclaim, “I won’t do anything until something changes around here.” “Until everyone else does as I want them to do, I am not going to step up.” It was Charles Spurgeon who said, “Every Christian is either a missionary or an imposter.” This group becomes only consumers and not collaborators. What they need is a fresh infilling of the Spirit of God. But usually, that is the very thing they are running from.
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